This morning after my shower I moved into the kitchen to begin making breakfast. When I entered the kitchen I found my husband lying half inside the dishwasher. I was a little concerned as this is highly unusual behavior for him. I’m usually up hours before he is. Asking him why he was hanging out inside our dishwasher he reminded me that I had asked for his help regarding it’s lack of cleaning power. He had gotten up early to clean it out for me. He’s a good man.
As I was assembling the necessary ingredients for our morning oatmeal and he was cleaning out dishwasher parts we had lovely conversation and chatted about many things. Imagine my surprise when in the midst of it all he cried out ‘a pea!’. It would seem that a pea, one lonely green pea had gotten stuck in one of the jets, preventing the water from getting everywhere it needed to be.
This one pea. This tiny pea prevented a large, capable machine from doing it’s job. It’s pretty incredible when you think about it. Something so small, so seemingly innocent can wreak havoc on whatever it’s involved with if it’s in the wrong place, in the wrong position.
The pea got me thinking. How many of us accidentally become the pea when we think we are part of the dishwasher? I know I sound crazy but hear me out. In every organization we all play a role. Some of us a leaders while others follow. Some organize and others dream. Each one of us has gifts that are given to us to be used and shared. We each have a role to play.
Sometimes we find ourselves stepping out of our role and becoming a block to others. We become the pea. Many times we think we can do everything and so take on more than we can handle. Sometimes we believe we have the answer and when others don’t agree we put up road blocks to prevent others from moving forward in the direction they feel is right. These actions are often unintentional, they’re subconscious. Regardless, they have an impact. Sometimes they prevent the entire operation from working. It’s important to see where we are the ‘pea’ in our lives and find ways of helping others achieve and succeed instead of blocking them.
Are you the pea?
Are there peas in your life?